First and foremost, intuitive eating is the default mode—the way we’re all born knowing how to eat. Generally speaking, eating in a way that is easy, effortless, and, well, intuitive. It doesn’t require much thought or create much drama in our lives; it’s just instinctual, like breathing and sleeping and going to the bathroom.
But because we live in diet culture, that default mode of relating to food and our bodies gets overwritten with a lot of harmful thoughts and beliefs, and this often happens before we’re even old enough to know what’s happening and give consent. We’re indoctrinated into our culture’s toxic belief system about food and bodies from a young age, and it takes us away from those simple, innate cues that tell us when to eat, what we’re in the mood for, and when we’re all done.
So intuitive eating in the sense of this course is a practice and a process to help you make peace with food and your body. This process has 10 principles to help guide you on that path to peace and freedom.
It will take time, practice, self-reflection, and support in order to get back to the peaceful relationship with food and your body that you so understandably want and deserve, so don’t get discouraged if it doesn’t all happen right away. And you never have to worry that you’re “doing it wrong,” because intuitive eating is a learning process. It’s all about having ups and downs as you go along, and both learning from those down moments and having compassion for yourself while you’re experiencing them.
Now here’s what intuitive eating is NOT: It’s not a diet, or a “lifestyle change,” “plan,” “program,” “protocol,” or any of the other things you’re probably used to in diet culture.
The goal really is to get you to loosen your grip on diet culture’s rules so that you can grab onto the new paradigm that is intuitive eating, and thus be more at peace with your body and food.
